When Dark Energy Hijacks Relationships And How To Reclaim Your Peace

Sudden blow-ups, looping jealousy, or a partner who feels oddly unlike themselves can make any relationship feel fragile. We dig into the pattern behind those moments and share a grounded, practical way to protect your connection: regulate first, reflect second, then clear energy if needed. No fear-mongering, no bypassing—just a clear map for staying steady when emotions surge and narratives get loud.

We start by unpacking how out-of-character spikes in anger, fear, and blame can signal more than miscommunication, especially when substances are involved. 

I walk through recent client cases, the telltale signs of energetic interference, and why emotional cords formed during arguments can make two people amplify the same pain. 

From there, we focus on strategy: how to check your own overwhelm, anger, and fear before projecting, how to cut cords to de-escalate, and how to stabilize your energy centers—especially the sacral, solar plexus, and throat—to regain voice, boundaries, and choice.

We also talk about choosing self first so the relationship can mirror that respect back, using curiosity to navigate polarizing topics without getting hooked, and treating obstacles as training rather than proof that love is broken. If you’ve ever wondered why certain fights feel scripted or why apologies don’t stick, this conversation offers tools to break the loop and rebuild safety without losing your spark.

If this resonates, join our Halloween group clearing: a live Zoom session with cord cutting, contagion clearing, and practical protection tools, plus Q&A. 

Chapters

• 0:05 Host Intro And Mission
• 0:58 Naming The Problem: Dark Forces In Relationships
• 2:06 Patterns, Signs, And Recent Cases
• 3:26 How Dark Energy Amplifies Emotions
• 4:12 Spotting Influence: Anger, Fear, Jealousy
• 4:53 Programs, Tools, And Circle Updates
• 5:35 Reflections Before Entities
• 7:03 Diagnostic Flow: Emotions Then Energetics
• 8:19 Relationship Red Flags Out Of Character
• 9:45 Wedges, Paranoia, And Specific Entities
• 11:02 Case Approach: Family Impact And Relief
• 12:20 Self First, Mirrors, And Boundaries
• 13:46 Triggers, Root Causes, And Regulation
• 15:18 Substances And Vulnerability To Attacks
• 17:20 Prevention: Balance Before Reaction
• 19:09 Compassion, Perspective, And Venting Well
• 21:06 Obstacles As Catalysts For Growth
• 23:08 Holding Complexity And Source Perspective

Transcript

SPEAKER_00: 0:05

Welcome to Unveil Podcast. I'm your host, Angela Christmas, and I help you with unveiling your true self by peeling away the layers. I do this with a combination of neuroscience, energetics, and intense spiritual places. I went from underpaid and overworked in corporate America to launching a six-figure company that continues to grow. I went from toxic relationships, being happy and single for over a year, as I work and continue to work on becoming the best version of myself and so much more. My greatest passion is to help women and mothers feel, transform, and become the highest versions of themselves. As I continue to grow and expand my intuitive knowledge and unique wisdom, I'll be including you on my journey to millions. So let's get into it. Hello and welcome back to Unveiled. Today we're going to talk about how dark forces can mess with our romantic relationships, our family relationships, all of that. Super important to understand. And I am someone who always pays attention to patterns and signs. And this last week, I have helped probably six different people, clients, friends with dark force issues in their relationship. And that is always a sign for me to pay attention. And I wanted to share that today on the podcast. Relationships in general will provide us with the biggest learning opportunities, right? Even though I have avoided being in a relationship for the last two years, I know relationships are 100% the way that I kept growing and evolving, right? Because without those relationships I was in, I wouldn't be where I'm at now. So I'm very grateful and feel appreciative of all of my past relationships, even the ones that did include abuse. When I do look back, I can see that in some of the relationships I was in, there was very much a dark force influence on my partner, especially with partners who drank a lot, who dabbled in different drugs, all of that, right? And so the dark forces take that as an opportunity to come in and amplify whatever's going on. And because I am a light being, as you guys are, that gave the dark forces more light, more food, right? Because they have disconnected from source, which means they need to get light from somewhere. That is the way that they live. And so they get it through people. So they wouldn't just work and mess with my partner. They would also jump onto me, drain me, all of that, right? So I just started kind of looking at this in this way. And then with the people I've been helping with the dark forces and their relationships, it can show up as really heated arguments, right? Because you can just imagine like dark energy hanging around, just waiting, right? For that moment where the person's going to be a match to have dark energy attached to them. That's a whole different topic. But that happens, then the other person gets upset, then they become a match for dark energy. And then you have two people, all of their emotions getting amplified by dark energy. So how will you know dark energy, dark forces are affecting your relationships? Well, there will be a lot of feelings of anger from you or the other person, right? Your partner, or feelings of fear. If there's a lot of substance abuse, there's definitely dark forces involved. It can be feelings of jealousy, it can be feelings of, well, it depends on the different entity, right? So I get into this more in my light it up program, which is my dark force program that I've been revamping. So if you're in my light it up, go log into circle because I'm actually going to do away with my hello audio for dark forces. And it is, there are tons of new audios in Circle for Dark Forces right now, and I'm continuing to add to it. So we always have to look at the reflective component of Dark Forces as well. Like, unless I wake up in total pain, which was this morning, I had a severe pain in my third eye. I shared all about it in my astral armor audio this morning because it was very much related to a sleep issue, something that happened in my sleep. But unless I wake up in total pain, I'm always checking my reflections before I even look at dark forces. So you don't want to give dark forces the power. You don't want to just jump to dark forces because then who are you prioritizing? Yourself or dark forces, right? I used to do that. I used to jump straight into, oh, must be this, must be that. I don't anymore. They're just not important to me, right? I'm not going to put them at the top of the list because they don't matter as much as I do. So I immediately go through different levels of overwhelm, fear, anger. I check the most common emotions that will cause me to be a match for dark forces. I bring those levels down, then I go look at my dark force issues, right? If I have any. 50% of the time, people are just jumping straight to the dark force issue. And it's actually false. It's not even a dark force attack. It's just sometimes our higher self knows that we'll pay attention if it's a certain situation, right? So they might be thinking like, oh, well, I need to communicate something's out of balance. So this is the way I know that they'll pay attention. But then you're just clearing the dark force entity and you're not actually clearing the reflection. So this is a newer upgraded technique that will be in my light it up. It wasn't in there before, but I will walk you through the steps of this because this is key. If you get your reflections and your emotional imbalances settled, you won't be getting a ton of dark force attacks. I mean, there's always exceptions, right? But by jumping straight into diagnosing as a dark force issue and bypassing the reflective component, that's not actually going to solve the issue, right? So going back to the relationship piece here, if you're noticing that your partner is extremely angry or is so distant or is blaming you or whatever it might be, especially if it's out of character, it's very possible it's a dark force issue. It's also a reflective issue. So there's always a reflective component. That is my point. So you want to deal with both, right? Reflections and relationships, they go hand in hand, right? If you get out of balance, then kind of brings a third person entity into your relationship. Dark forces. There's one specific dark force entity whose entire joy in life is creating issues in relationships. And they will even take someone that you've known for 20 years and make you think if if the dark force issues with you, then they could make you think that that person is actually a horrible person. They've been plotting against you your whole life. You will totally believe that if you're dealing this with this one type of entity. And same goes for if it's your, you know, let's say it's your best friend of 20 years and they're being influenced by this specific entity, they're going to think you've done something wrong, that you're plotting against them, all of these things. And they make you so sure of it that it will drive a wedge between you two, right? That's what they and they they love doing that. So it's really key to notice anything out of character. Like if there's if you're so happy in your relationship or marriage, you don't really get into like intense arguments. And then all of a sudden, like there's all this anger and like going at each other's throats. Just take a step back for a second. What I do uh for a client, if they were to come to me and say that, which I did deal, which I did help a client with last week when she was like, we never fight. This is so out of character. We've been at each other's throats for the last three days. It's affecting our kids. Like, I don't know what to do. I immediately looked at what are their levels of overwhelm, of anger, of fear, right? Making sure I relay that to them so that they can work on those pieces. And then I do look in and I'm like, okay, what is actually going on from a dark energy, dark force perspective? And it's always usually one or two entity types that tend to amplify the anger, the fear, the jealousy, the, you know, not understanding each other, all of that. So this has made me think over the last, over the last week as I've been helping so many people with this, I'm like, just think of all their relationships that end and likely were because of dark forces and the reflective components, right? Because your partner is there for you to grow. They are reflecting you. If you love yourself and you put yourself first, yes, that's what you should be doing. You should be putting yourself first. So if you're not, your partner will never put you first. You have to put yourself first if you want your partner to put you first, right? So it's like just observing relationships has been really interesting. And like thinking back on my relationships. Like I would always jump in and want to do everything possible for my partner to help them, but I was putting them before myself. And then I was wondering why they weren't doing things that I wanted them to be doing, like surprising me or taking me out to dinner. They weren't putting me first because I wasn't putting myself first, right? It sounds so simple, but it's very true. There's also things you can put into your creator field to get them to treat you a certain way that's a little bit more advanced. But relationships really are the best way to learn. And so, yes, I'm not in a relationship right now, but I still have relationships. So I still have close family relationships, friendships, all of that. Anytime I get triggered by someone, I first look at what's underneath that trigger, right? What is it that I'm actually wanting or worried about? It's always an insecurity or a lack. So if I get triggered by someone, I ask, is this getting triggered by an insecurity or a lack? Okay, let's say it's an insecurity. And then I look at the emotion. Is it anger, fear, overwhelm, blah, blah, blah, right? I get to the root of it, then I'm able to neutralize. Because what often happens, and I know I've talked about this before, but we're in such an era of blaming the other person in the relationship, but they are just mirroring you. And yes, they could be amplified, right? If they're dabbling in substance abuse or drinking. Like I know for me, I can have like one glass of wine and be good. But if I have two glasses or more, I have seen the shift in how my energy opens up and I become more vulnerable to dark forces, right? Yes, there's things you can do, but I have zero desire to get drunk anymore. I've done that plenty in my younger years, but I have zero desire to be drunk. However, I do like the taste of red wine, and I do like having a glass of red wine here and there. So I have devised things I can do to protect myself. But if I were to get into the three glasses of wine stage, 100% I would be vulnerable to dark forces, right? They would love that. So sometimes they can work through other people. I noticed this the other day where someone offered me a glass of wine and I didn't want any for a moment. I was like, maybe that would be nice. But then I realized because that person that offered it to me had an issue with dark forces, I was like, oh, they're not doing that to be nice. They're doing that because they're influenced and they want me to drink it so that then I become vulnerable, right? Because at the moment I was really emotionally balanced. So I was not really a match. But after you have a couple glasses of wine, it's very easy to get out of balance emotionally, right? You start thinking about things that bothered you, you start venting, all of that, then you become a match, and then you become vulnerable and on you go to getting attacks and reflections. So, how can you prevent dark forces from affecting your relationship? Well, that is a much longer topic, but in short, what you can start doing is trying to stay emotionally balanced, meaning if your partner does something that pisses you off, take a moment for yourself to regulate and don't react because you're basically just screaming at yourself in the mirror if you just start reacting. So, does that do any good at all? No. So take a moment, try to see it from their perspective. That has been one of the biggest struggles for me, to be honest, in my past relationships. I'm like, well, he did that. Like he stole money from me. Of course I'm pissed. But what I would do now is I would look at, okay, if I was in his position, would I have done that? You know, I try, I see it from their perspective. I do that even now with certain family members who trigger me. I will look at things from their perspective. Well, what made them do this? Right. I'm intuitive, so I can see like what's actually going on, how they're feeling, where it's coming from, all of that. So I can actually have more compassion instead of labeling them as the bad person. Yes, of course, I'm human. I have moments where I just need to vent, but I will vent about something or someone knowing. Like I'll usually do it to a friend who's also high frequency, and I'll just say, like, I just need to vent for a moment and get this out so that I can move forward. And so I'll vent, and because she's also intuitive, she'll pick up on things that I didn't even think about. And I'm like, oh yeah, great. Okay, seeing it from this way, this way, here's the reflection for me. Here's what I can do differently in the future, all of that. I always look at these things as learning opportunities. Obstacles are the best way to learn. So instead of thinking as obstacles as bad, they're actually amazing because you know what? Obstacles help us grow. And like I would not be where I'm at right now if I hadn't gone through all of the obstacles I did. And as some of you know, it's like I've had so many obstacles. Like most people don't even have one of the obstacles I've had, and I've had so many, but I'm grateful for all of them. And I can look and see exactly what I learned and pulled from each situation. And I can look at them all as perfect, right? I can even take horrible experiences, traumatic experiences of mine that I used to think happened to me because I wasn't special, because all of this stuff. And I can actually see now how it happened because I'm so special. I can flip horrific things into positive things because I've grown in consciousness, I've grown in the way I view things closer to how Source views them, right? Obviously, I'm still growing and making my way up. But I like to play that game of how would Source view this as perfect? Because Source doesn't see anything as bad. Source sees everything as perfect. So if you can take a horrific situation, like I've had many of those in the past and see them as perfect and how they've gotten me to where I'm at now, like if none of those things had happened, I wouldn't be here right now talking to you. I'd probably still be in corporate America dealing with douchebags in San Francisco that I used to date, right? So that's where it'd probably be. Maybe a little bit less stressed, but stress isn't actually always bad when it's when you can see that it's helping you grow. So humans just so badly always want to feel good and safe, right? I get it. But feeling good and safe, do you think that's going to help you grow? No. So I encourage myself every day to try to take a risk to, you know, where I want to like react, hold it in, neutralize, and see it from their perspective. And the best situation to do this in actually is if you have a family member or friend who's super political, right? I'm not super political. I have my views on things, but I don't push them on other people. But of course I know people who are very political, who try to push their views on everyone. It used to bother me, I used to run away from it. And now I just sit in it, I actually lean in and I ask questions. Like they're saying, uh, I feel XYZ. Oh, why do you feel like that? And a lot of times they don't even know. It's just because of the brainwashing, right? So I've thought about just sneaking my contagion healing into their bedroom at night, just giving them some space from all the contagions, and then maybe they'll have a little aha moment and realize that it's not actually how they feel. It's the brainwashing, the programming, right? So one of the biggest things I didn't even touch on that I'm realizing is the chords we create when we're having an emotional reaction with someone. So let's say you're in an argument with your partner and you're feeling angry, and then you guys connect with a negative emotional cord, you guys are gonna feel each other's anger, then you're going to be amplifying it. And I see this happen again and again with partners who are going through growth moments, right? So if someone's having an issue with their partner, that's one of the first things I check too. Are they corded into each other? Most of the time it's yes. So I fix that. They usually feel some relief just from that piece of it. Then the next thing I do is I check a lot of times with women, I'm finding their lower chakras are not operating at the level they should be, which is an issue for many reasons. It can also cause health issues. So I've noticed a lot of the times, it's usually the first, yeah, it's usually, it's usually the second and the third, sometimes the first chakra, and then sometimes the throat chakra too, just if they're not someone who feels comfortable speaking up, all of that. And so then I always fix that situation that brings them more relief, right? These are things they're not even doing. I'm just doing for them. I do that first to boost all of their energy. I infuse really high frequency energy into them so they're feeling really good. Then we can look at, okay, what's the reflection here? And luckily, all of my clients are really open to hearing that. I've yet to work with someone who is like, nope, that's not my issue. That's their issue, right? Because I tend to attract high frequency people. And even if they did say that, that's okay. Because I just know that's their ego having some resistance. It's not them. If they've found their way to me, I know that they're a high frequency person who will end up being willing to look at their piece in all of it, right? But they might just need some coaching to get there. Anyway, so if this resonates with you, I know this was kind of a little bit of everything. I will next week dive into one specific piece of relationships and dark forces. If there's something you want me to talk about, definitely email me. Of course, it will be anonymous. I would not share your name. But if there's something specific, like a relationship issue you keep running running into, I can talk about that on the podcast as an example and share if there's dark force issues happening, like what that might look like, all of that. I love getting ideas from you guys and what you want to hear about. So email me, Angela at angela-marie Christian.com. And if you haven't signed up for the Halloween group clearing, and this is different from we're not clearing groups off of you for those who are familiar with dark forces. It's a group clearing, meaning it's a live Zoom call where my fellow intuitive and friend Manuk and I are going to cut cords for you, clear contagions, give you thought and emotional protection tools, and then you'll have a short QA at the end with us. It's only$59, and it's coming up. Oh, it's actually next Wednesday. So it's the 29th. So you have about a week, and it'll be a great fun time. At the end, you can ask questions in general just about dark forces, but you will walk away feeling amazing. So hope to see you guys there. Have a wonderful week. Bye. Thank you for listening to Unveiled. I always love hearing your takeaways. So please connect with me on Instagram at Angela Murray Christian. And feel free to tag me and share it with your friends. 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